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Prof. Vanessa Costello, LPC

Experienced mental health professional

Provides online counseling through BetterHelp

At a glance

Prof. is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.

FSA/HSA accepted
4.8 stars
Clients are very satisfied with Prof.. View 61 reviews
Offers Telehealth visits
Licensed in Oklahoma, Texas, and 1 more

Recent reviews

She is the best

Reviewed November 2026

Great listener very insightful.

Reviewed September 2026

More about Prof.

  • 10 years' experience
  • Female
  • LPC

I am pleased that you have selected BetterHelp and reached out to me as you begin your counseling journey. My name is Vanessa, and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Arizona, Oklahoma, and Texas. I have more than 12 years of professional counseling experience and hold a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy. Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with children, adolescents, young adults, adults, and older adults with a variety of emotional, relational, and life concerns.

As a Christian counselor, I believe that true healing involves caring for the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. My counseling approach is grounded in biblical Christian principles and the Word of God, while also incorporating therapeutic modalities that are clinically appropriate and responsive to your individual needs. My goal is to create a safe and supportive environment where faith and professional counseling can work together to encourage healing, growth, and meaningful change.

I have experience helping clients navigate anxiety and stress, depression, relationship concerns, motivation, self-esteem, confidence, life transitions, and other personal challenges. My clinical approach incorporates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), and trauma-focused approaches, along with other therapeutic interventions as appropriate. I believe that counseling should be collaborative and individualized rather than a one-size-fits-all process.

My faith is an important part of who I am as a counselor. I am passionate about helping individuals discover hope, healing, identity, purpose, and strength through their relationship with God and the truth of His Word. When appropriate and desired by the client, I integrate Scripture and biblical principles into the counseling process while also utilizing therapeutic interventions that support emotional and psychological well-being.

I believe you are the expert on your own story. You bring strengths, experiences, values, and abilities into counseling that can become important resources for your healing and growth. My role is to walk alongside you, provide professional guidance, help you understand the challenges you are facing, and support you as you work toward the changes you desire.

Taking the first step toward therapy requires courage. I am glad you have taken that step, and I look forward to walking alongside you as you pursue healing, growth, and a deeper understanding of yourself and your faith.

Specialties

Stress Anxiety Relationship issues Self-esteem Depression Coping with life changes Family conflicts Grief Intimacy-related issues Anger management Career difficulties Compassion fatigue Caregiver issues and stress Commitment issues Communication problems Family of origin issues Family problems Fertility issues Forgiveness Isolation / loneliness Life purpose Midlife crisis Social anxiety and phobia Women's issues Young adult issues

Insurance Accepted

  • Aetna
  • Blue Cross Blue Shield of Texas
  • Cigna
  • GEHA
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • UMR
  • UnitedHealthcare

Treatment Approaches

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Trauma-Focused Therapy

Licenses

Prof. Vanessa Costello's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1841628617.

  • LPC · Oklahoma · LPC06311 · Renews June 2027
  • LPC · Texas · 93061 · Renews May 2027
  • LPC · Arizona · LPC-22536 · Renews September 2027

About online counseling

Affordable.
Pay a low flat fee.
Convenient.
Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
Available now.
There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.

Online counseling, sometimes called teletherapy, refers to talk therapy delivered remotely through digital platforms, such as video calls, phone calls, or chat. It can be a great option for people who face barriers to traditional face-to-face therapy, such as those living in remote areas, individuals with mobility issues, or people with busy schedules that make it difficult to attend in-person sessions.

Teletherapy also offers greater convenience and flexibility, allowing clients to access care from the comfort of their homes. Research shows that the treatment outcomes with online counseling are often just as effective as with traditional therapy, providing a viable alternative for individuals seeking mental health support.

Reviews for Prof. Vanessa Costello

All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.

Overall rating:

4.8

61 reviews

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She is the best

Reviewed November 2026

Great listener very insightful.

Reviewed September 2026

Just getting started but enjoying my experience so far.

Reviewed June 2026

Vanessa is a very good listener and has a way of putting things plainly. She is easy to connect with and is genuine in her care.

Reviewed June 2026

I think I stumbled upon the best therapist I’ve had yet I had/ have therapy trauma and it was hard for me to get back into therapy and I’ve been so happy with Ms.Vanessa she has given great steps and tools to help with things I have going on in my life

Reviewed June 2026

Amazing therapist

Reviewed May 2026

My mental health has improved greatly since I have started sessions with Vanessa. I know i wouldn't be where I am at without BetterHelp so I tell people about it.

Reviewed May 2026

Vanessa goes out of her way to help people who need help.

Reviewed April 2026

Vanessa is an amazing therapist and she brings everything back to God which is what I needed. She comes from a place of truly caring, she never comes from a place of judgement which I had felt from previous therapist. She listens and helps me process what I am going through.

Reviewed April 2026

My first impression with Dr. Vanessa was very nice. She is very relatable & comfortable to talk to.

Reviewed March 2026

Vanessa is an excellent therapist and always responds as soon as she has chance. She listens and offers great advice

Reviewed February 2026

Since I started therapy with Vanessa, Im starting to feel at peace. She hears me when I talk and provides such great feedback. I always said I'd never go to therapy but she makes me feel like I can tell her anything without judgement and I always look forward to my next session. She has so much compassion and even though I have a long ways to go, I'm excited for this new journey.

Reviewed January 2026

Vanessa is great

Reviewed January 2026

She is excellent and extremely helpful

Reviewed January 2026

Vanessa always has a way of telling me how to deal with my thoughts and alternative ways to look at things. I have come a long way since we first met.

Reviewed December 2025

She’s very caring and compassionate. She’s very professional, knowledgeable and helpful.

Reviewed December 2025

She is an excellent therapist. I have had a lot and I believe she has been the best I have ever had

Reviewed November 2025

Vanessa has a comforting nature and I feel gets what I’m trying share.

Reviewed November 2025

Vanessa is great at what she does.

She always listens and has great advice.

Vanessa is a kind and knowledgeable therapist

She is knowledgeable and caring

I have only had two sessions with Vanessa, but based on those two sessions, Vanessa has met me right where I am in my life. She has made me feel heard, confident, and hopeful. She is very easy to talk to and with her experience and expertise, she knowns exactly what I am going through which makes me feel even more confident in this journey. I genuinely hold nothing back, and she does the same for me. She tells me how it is and that is exactly what I need. I am so grateful that the Lord has put Vanessa in my path and on this journey of healing!

Vanessa is courteours, kind, hepful and realistic. She offers realistic solutions as opposed to just a listening hear. I love the call to action and the working out of obstacles.

So thankful for Dr. Vanessa! I always feel MUCH better after our sessions! Thank you BetterHelp.

Vanessa is a great listener and has really helped me through challenging times. She is encouraging and supportive and provides helpful feedback. I always leave our sessions feeling much better and optimistic.

She listens and always has a positive response and solutions. She's always there when I need her.

Thanks for listening to me and giving me some practical ways to reduce my anxiety and help me deal with my challenges.

She's so sweet and insightful but I also feel like she knows how to keep it light and relatable and I really appreciate that about her :)

A breathe of fresh air after every session! Thank you

Reviewed March 2025

She’s fabulous. There’s no other word for her. Just fabulous.

Reviewed February 2025

Vanessa genuinely cares and seems to understand the full picture quickly, without having to rehash years of situations. Love her!

Reviewed February 2025

If I could give Doctor Vanessa 100 stars I would. She's professional, considerate of my time, and doesn't spend the whole time speaking about herself, which is common among therapists. She's a professional that is also quite relatable!

Reviewed January 2025

Vanessa Costello listens to me and gives me the support that I need. She is a great listener, but also great at giving advice at the right time. She understands me in ways that most therapists couldn’t. She sees me as a whole person and not just as a client. She has been the biggest help when my mind is at war with itself. I highly recommend her! I respect her greatly!

Reviewed January 2025

Vanessa is very easy to talk to, thank you

Reviewed December 2024

Very helpful

Reviewed December 2024

I have had 1 session with my therapist and it went great. She listened and responded appropriately and made recommendations on reading materials and worksheets.

Reviewed December 2024

I really feel like Dr. Costello cares about me and my mental health. She messages me between visits to check on me. I feel she understands my concerns.

Reviewed December 2024

Working with Dr. Costello has been great! I feel more confident and capable in handling life’s challenges after speaking with her.

Reviewed November 2024

Dr. Costello is truly the best, the most professional, honest and helpful therapist I’ve had! Beyond thankful! And thanks BetterHelp for making the decision on choosing a therapist very easy.

Reviewed November 2024

Knows how to cut through the crap and stays direct with me

Reviewed November 2024

Vanessa seemed to quickly understand what I have gone through in life without me having to rehash the past. She is positive and looks toward the future, but still acknowledges what I’ve been through.

Reviewed September 2024

My second session and I already feel like I’ve had a breakthrough. Thank you Vanessa.

Reviewed September 2024

When I started my therapy journey, I feared mostly that I'd be wasting their time. That my issues weren't that big of a deal and that I should consider myself lucky that I can even consider going to therapy. Not only did Vanessa IMMEDIATELY dissuade those thoughts, but she made me feel heard and she made me realize that everyone who thinks they need help shouldn't restrict themselves from finding it. I couldn't have asked for a better therapist than her and I appreciate all her words to me

Reviewed August 2024

Im just starting out, but already I've learned a lot of valuable things from Vanessa

Reviewed August 2024

She has helped me see more beauty in my role as a father and husband.

Reviewed July 2024

I have really enjoyed Vanessa as my therapist. She is making a huge difference in my life.

Reviewed July 2024

She is good and helpful.

Reviewed July 2024

Vanessa is a very capable, caring therapist. She listens with all senses and never makes me feel like I am being judged.

Reviewed June 2024

In my first initial therapy session, I was nervous to even go through with it. I was nervous I wouldn't be heard. After completing the first session, I left feeling much better as the weeks went on. I've started to look forward to having my meetings with Vanessa

Reviewed April 2024

Vanessa is great. She has gotten to know me and listens very well and has helped me to understand why I do the things I do.

Reviewed April 2024

Vanessa is a thoughtful, kind person who listens and understands the life experiences that I may struggle with and offers examples and lived experiences of how to manage each situation. I am thankful for her expertise because it has helped me navigate some challenging times and the laughter always helps as well.

Reviewed April 2024

I absolutely love working with Dr. Costello! She was able to get to the root of issues in our first session together. She is very straightforward, which i really appreciate and need in my life. Our sessions always seem to go by so quickly! She is funny and quick-witted as well, and she really listens to me. I also enjoy her real-life examples, homework, and practical steps she gives me to implement into my own life. I’m so happy she is my therapist and I am loving the progress I’m seeing with her already!

Reviewed March 2024

Vanessa is a wonderful therapist, she goes above and beyond for me and I'm sure every client she has. I highly recommend her.

Reviewed January 2024

She is kind, funny and a good listener

Reviewed December 2023

In our calls we got right down to business and I'm feeling lighter than before. Vanessa makes things feel simple and actionable. She is easy to talk to, and has a good sense of humor!

Reviewed November 2023

excellent therapist

Reviewed November 2023

Vanessa makes you think. She put things in perspective that you may have never thought about. But it is a good thing it helps you understand the things that you are going through.

Reviewed November 2023

Miss Venessa is very kind and easy to talk to. From day one she has made me feel like I am talking to a friend. Except she is like talking to a friend that knows how to break down my situation and feelings and better my life.

Reviewed September 2023

Vanessa is great. She listens, encourages and gives great insight to issues I am experiencing.

Reviewed July 2023

I feel much better after we talk.

Reviewed June 2023

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Frequently asked questions

Does Prof. Vanessa Costello offer telehealth visits?

Yes. Prof. Vanessa Costello works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.

What language(s) does Prof. Vanessa Costello speak?

Prof. Vanessa Costello speaks English.

How many years of experience does Prof. Vanessa Costello have?

Prof. Vanessa Costello has 10 years of experience.

Where is Prof. Vanessa Costello licensed to practice?

Prof. Vanessa Costello is licensed to practice in Oklahoma, Texas, and Arizona.

Does Prof. Vanessa Costello accept FSA/HSA?

Yes, Prof. Vanessa Costello accepts FSA/HSA meaning you can pay for sessions with your pre-tax healthcare dollars. Every year hundreds of thousands of people use their FSA/HSA to pay for therapy.

Does Prof. Vanessa Costello accept insurance?

Yes, Prof. Vanessa Costello accepts Aetna, Blue Cross Blue Shield of Texas, Cigna, GEHA, Optum, Oscar Health, UMR, and UnitedHealthcare.

Does Prof. Vanessa Costello accept clients outside of the United States?

Yes, Prof. Vanessa Costello accepts clients outside of the United States.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."

What treatment approaches does Prof. Vanessa Costello offer?

Prof. Vanessa Costello offers clients Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Motivational Interviewing, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.

How can I communicate with Prof. Vanessa Costello?

Prof. Vanessa Costello can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.

How do I get started with Prof. Vanessa Costello?

Just tap the BOOK NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation.

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